It's often held that males tend to stray more often than women. That they tend to propose love when in fact they were already in committed relationships.
I would assert that here is more than a modicum of truth in this, without going into the reasons. The symptom is verifiable, notwithstanding the reason for such behaviour.
Now comes the interesting part. Some men and women, the P's (as in MBTI) tend to be less committed to their words. When they have committed to meeting you or doing a specific activity by a certain date they go ahead and commit their time to another activity that would definitely conflict with their earlier commitment made to you.
The J type (as in MBTI) would think through and then only commit, they would avoid such conflicts. The P's have no such issues, they are like men proposing.
The final decision of which activity to do (or which girl to go with) depends largely on exigencies (whose father holds a shotgun to the man's head) or where their heart is.
Both the tendencies, allocating the heart or the time, have similar engines running. Of not blocking the heart or the time slot as anyone meticulously using a calendar would do. In both cases, the perpetrators do not see any issue. It's the J types (in the latter issue) or women (in the former) that are appalled.
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