Monday, December 12, 2011

What Kind Of Man Can We Not Tolerate

A friend and I collated the following traits in men that women cannot tolerate in men. We specifically did not include things like his looks, his wealth etc. We focused only on his traits.

1. He wants to spend a lot of time with you - more than you expect and is possessive. He doesn't give you space. 

2. He listens to the strongest person everywhere (Mother, sibling, friend etc) - like Bingley in Pride and Prejudice. He has no mind of his own. He can't take much stress / responsibility. if there is a problem he usually avoids it. He doesnt take any initiative for most things (to go out, even sex).

4. You can't have a long enjoyable conversation most times with him.

5. He has a foul temper and / or little sense of humor and / or is a chauvinist. He may seek your opinion / decision but his decision will usually be different.

8. He cannot be trusted (with money, women). His integrity is not much to write home about.

The fun is that no man will have ALL these characteristics. Each man will have some of these, and not the rest. Which of these is the worst that YOU cannot tolerate? How would you rank these? Note that the numbers are 1, 2, 4, 5 and 8.

We have taken pains to ensure that there aren't too many points to confuse the reader. And hopefully we have not left out important traits. If women can read these traits and point to one of these and then say "aha THERE is my man. right there", I think our efforts would have been justified. 

Comments welcome. (Earlier we had 8 different points. Then based on the analysis of the comments we got we reclassified the traits, Point 5 includes erstwhile 7. And point 2 includes 3,6)

18 comments:

  1. 8 3 6 2 4 5 1 7... starting from the worst which is 8.

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  2. I'll choose 3 4 8 1 2 7 5 6

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  3. 2,3,6,7... i just cant tolerate dat kinda man...

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  4. poor girls..they think they remain anonymous

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  5. 8 and 1 then 5 4 2 Mary

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  6. 8 ,2, 1, 4and 5 shirin

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