Friday, December 25, 2020

Complex Emotions

Acquired or complex emotions are different from simple emotions such as anger, pain, happiness which are present even in toddlers and in animals. These simple emotions are not learnt. 


Complex emotions are interesting. Lot of things happen because of it.  Most of our major initiatives, good and bad, happen because of complex emotions. Complex emotions may be better developed in P type and F type people  (as in MBTI) people. 

Complex emotions cause motivation, sensitivity, sacrifice, empathy, condescension, focus on (creating the right) image, white collar crime, blackmail, Dark Triad (Psychpathic / Machiavellian / Narcissistic behaviour) etc. 

Insensitivity can be the result of T behaviour (because it doesn't think of how someone might feel) or of J behaviour (because it's too busy following rules to think of feelings) or of a F / P because they are too busy focusing on their own goals.

The complex behaviour needs the N (as in MBTI) trait to grow. 

When a high energy combines with complex behaviour then these behaviours are intensely exhibited.


The greater the N, the higher the person is likely to focus on reaching the top of Maslow's pyramid. Reaching the top isn't always good or bad. People with high level of complex emotions may include Donald Trump, Adolf Hitler, Robert Clive, Mother Theresa, Mahatma Gandhi - an assorted bunch as we can see. 

The diametric opposite of an NFP is an STJ. The latter (especially one with low energy) will be a very simple soul compared to the former - not necessarily a better soul but simpler.

Take 3 Buses To Arrive At Work

An interesting conversation happened with my maid today. She was supposed to come at 8AM (that's her shift timing) and she has to come despite it being Christmas today. She came 20 minutes late. I called her in panic at 8:20 and she said she was just reaching my place. When she reached what happened, why she was late. She told me a little irritatedly that she had to change 3 buses and finally she had to hire an auto. This should be read in light of the fact that I had suggested she leave half an earlier last night, which she did. 


In her response, there was no apology. She didn't say it was Christmas day and hence buses were infrequent and hence she got delayed and that it won't likely happen tomorrow or any other normal day. Her response basically talked about her issue (she had to spend more for the auto), her inconvenience (had to take 3 buses) and the indication being these issues are outside of her control and the inference being that what happened could very well repeat any other day. 


The question of the shift time and adherence to it was hardly relevant in light of her issues.


She is probably 20 years old. I realised that by this age she has learned to respond emotionally, (but without anger) and unprofessionally. Unprofessional because there were no qualms about being late. Emotional because the entire thought process were about HER personal issues which were not relevant to her work here. A true P (as in MBTI)!


Sunday, December 13, 2020

Recipe - Egg Fried Rice

Steps in reverse chronological order. This is Tukun's recipe. I haven't made it yet.

Spring onion. 

Garnish with spring onion greens. Voila!! Done.

Add salt while mixing and fry it. Medium flame. Not to over cook and make the veggies mushy. Once the amount of vegetables reduces, add soya sauce and vinegar. Keep the salt low in veggies bcos salt is there in eggs and soya sauce as well.

Cabbage capsicum peas carrots

Once raw smell of onions and garlic is gone ...add the veggies

Fri onions, garlic and green chilli

Boiled rice ready

Prepare the egg first

Wednesday, November 25, 2020

Trump's Stress Test

Trump Stress-Tested the Election System, and the Cracks Showed: This is a lovely article. 


The article focuses only on the election and howit took the stress. Congress would hopefully ensure that elections can handle stress better.


But what about the other issues that Trump stressed - such as meddling with special counsel Mueller's investigation or violating campaign finance laws (paying off the women through Cohen) or expecting the Ukrainian president to investigate Biden in order to get American aid? 


Trump stressed the system and the system was found to be weak in responding. 


There is a general belief that Trump did everything in broad daylight and the belief that whatever is done that way cannot be duplicitous. Here is an example below:


What we do know is unquestionably it was too many people,” De Blasio told reporters on Tuesday. “It appears that there was a very conscious effort to conceal what was going on. And that’s what makes it even more unacceptable.” from https://www.washingtonpost.com/nation/2020/11/25/hasidic-wedding-fined-new-york/


Is the act by itself culpable or the fact that it was concealed culpable? What is our moral stand? 


Who is going to address these?


Additional reading

  1. https://vbala99.blogspot.com/2020/11/preening-narcissism.html
  2. https://vbala99.blogspot.com/2020/11/trumps-character.html
  3. Donald Trump and the Damage Done
  4. The Indian Express: When history is written, US courts may be singled out for protecting nation’s election integrity.
  5. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2021/01/08/fast-track-trump-impeachment-pointless-revenge/
  6. Mint: The real lesson of Trump’s coup attempt that shocked everyone.
  7. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/david-kendall-censure-trump-congress/2021/01/10/9bed6330-537f-11eb-a08b-f1381ef3d207_story.html
  8. Joe Biden’s Impeachment Moment
  9. The Scary Power of the Companies That Finally Shut Trump Up
  10. Mike Pence Reached His Limit With Trump. It Wasn’t Pretty.
  11. https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/media/how-the-media-handled-trump/2021/01/12/0f13a0a8-54da-11eb-a817-e5e7f8a406d6_story.html
  12. https://www.washingtonpost.com/technology/2021/01/14/trump-twitter-megaphone/
  13. https://www.washingtonpost.com/tablet/2021/01/14/whats-next-trump/ - lovely voice
  14. There’s as Much to Learn From Trump’s Success as His Disgrace
  15. https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/2021/01/20/biden-inauguration-day-live-updates/ - Is this the end?
  16. Fauci on What Working for Trump Was Really Like
  17. https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/trump-investigations-lawsuits/2021/03/17/1ca3806c-8379-11eb-81db-b02f0398f49a_story.html
  18. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2021/07/02/trump-case-may-be-unusual-if-true-its-brazen-tax-fraud/
  19. https://apple.news/ARAuaUILdRrKqj2Tc0mIZCA
  20. Will Trump Face a Legal Reckoning in Georgia?
  21. https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/2022/04/29/trump-investigations-litigation/
  22. Before Jan. 6, Aide Warned Secret Service of Security Risk to Pence: About Mike Pence, Vice President
  23. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/06/14/how-prosecutors-sidestep-question-trump-intent-jan-6/
  24. Despite Growing Evidence, a Prosecution of Trump Would Face Challenges and https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2022/jun/19/trump-charges-january-6-hearings-capitol-attack?CMP=Share_AndroidApp_Other
  25. Prosecute Trump? Put Yourself in Merrick Garland’s Shoes.
  26. https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/2022/06/25/trump-jan6-hearings-sundaytake/
  27. Cassidy Hutchinson Changes Everything: Small steps forward.
  28. The End of Roe, the End of Trump: Very interesting
  29. https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/jul/13/criminal-investigation-donald-trump?CMP=Share_AndroidApp_Other
  30. https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2022/07/prosecute-trump-january-6-doj/670511/
  31. https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2022/06/january-6-hearings-trump-cassidy-hutchinson/661414/: "Some of Trump’s defenders will, of course, seek to explain Hutchinson’s testimony away and apologize for him. They will contend that if the president wasn’t heard explicitly saying, I want a violent mob to topple Congress, harm members, and overturn the election that I lost, he cannot be held responsible for what happened that day. This is nonsense. If you pour gasoline all over a building, tell some people it is essential the building burn, and make sure they’re carrying matches and lighters, you are to blame for the arson that follows—especially if you then decline to call the fire department and condone the inferno. What Trump wanted to put up in flames on January 6 was American democracy."
  32. Cassidy Hutchinson Changes Everything
  33. We Can’t Afford Not to Prosecute Trump
  34. Trump Faces Questions About His Net Worth in Interview He Tried to Avoid
  35. https://www.nytimes.com/2022/02/14/nyregion/mazars-trump-organization-financial-statements.html?searchResultPosition=1
  36. https://www.nytimes.com/2022/08/10/nyregion/trump-questioning-investigation.html
  37. Did the F.B.I. Just Re-Elect Donald Trump?
  38. https://www.wsj.com/articles/the-payback-for-mar-a-lago-will-be-brutal-trump-raid-fbi-justice-department-president-investigation-11660255311?mod=djem10point
  39. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/08/11/trump-fantasy-collective-persecution/
  40. https://www.nytimes.com/2022/08/12/us/trump-investigation-takeaways.html?smid=url-share
  41. https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2022/aug/13/nuclear-or-not-classified-or-not-mar-a-lago-files-spell-out-jeopardy-for-trump?CMP=Share_AndroidApp_Other
  42. https://www.washingtonpost.com/outlook/2022/08/12/seditious-conspiracy-insurrection-trump-charges/
  43. https://www.washingtonpost.com/national-security/2022/08/13/trump-mar-a-lago-search/
  44. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/08/16/trump-reckless-national-security-serious/
  45. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/08/16/trump-crime-gop-support/
  46. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/08/18/trump-pardon-biden-benefit/
  47. Trump’s Legal Team Scrambles to Find an Argument: ""Mr. Trump, people familiar with his thinking say, sees the attorney general, Merrick B. Garland, not as the federal government’s chief law enforcement officer, but merely as a political foe and someone with whom he can haggle with about how much anger exists over the situation. Shortly before Mr. Garland announced that he was seeking to unseal the search warrant, an intermediary for Mr. Trump reached out to a Justice Department official to pass along a message that the former president wanted to negotiate, as if he were still a New York developer. The message Mr. Trump wanted conveyed, according to a person familiar with the exchange, was: “The country is on fire. What can I do to reduce the heat?” The essence of Trump - Dealing and negotiating and posturing.
  48. 3 big things we learned from the Mar-a-Lago affidavit
  49. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/08/29/roy-blunt-republicans-trump-wrongdoing/
  50. The Guardian: New legal filings paint Trump as a flailing liar surrounded by lackeys.
  51. https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/2022/09/02/trump-republicans-biden-maga/
  52. https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2022/09/judge-cannon-trump-mar-a-lago-special-master/671349/: Judge Cannon failed the stress test
  53. https://www.msnbc.com/the-reidout/reidout-blog/trump-nuclear-documents-mar-a-lago-rcna46638
  54. Trump’s ‘Muddled’ Claims About the Presidential Records Act, Explained
  55. The Story So Far: Where 6 Investigations Into Donald Trump Stand
  56. https://www.nytimes.com/live/2022/09/21/nyregion/trump-fraud-lawsuit-ny-james/donald-trump-fraud-lawsuit-letitia-james?smid=url-share
  57. Inside the Completely Legal G.O.P. Plot to Destroy American Democracy - The video is terrifying
  58. https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2022/dec/06/trump-organization-tax-fraud-guilty-verdict-analysis?CMP=Share_AndroidApp_Other: Breath of fresh air
  59. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/12/06/herschel-walker-reputation-georgia-football-politics-senate-trump/
  60. Trump Faces a Week of Headaches on Jan. 6 and His Taxes
  61. https://www.forbes.com/sites/irswatch/2016/02/28/no-ordinary-audit-donald-trump-is-facing-the-irs-wealth-squad/?sh=4017439b4d71
  62. For Cassidy Hutchinson, ‘I don’t remember’ wasn’t good enough

Sunday, November 22, 2020

Preening Narcissism

This post is an exception - this is a scrapbook containing only links. But this post is included here only because it's an excellent collection of links on Trump. 

President Trump Is Unfit for This Crisis. Period.  Quote: "His preening narcissism, his compulsive lying, his vindictiveness, his terror of germs and his terrifying inability to grasp basic science..."


Panel Suggests Trump Knew He Lost the Election, Eyeing Criminal Case https://nyti.ms/35qWxX3 quote "Even though none of Mr. Trump’s persistent claims about election fraud turned out to be true, prosecutors will most likely have to grapple with the question of his state of mind at the time — specifically, the issue of whether he believed the claims were true, said Alan Rozenshtein, a former Justice Department official who teaches at the University of Minnesota Law School." 


Extrapolating liberally if I were to rob Barclays Bank, the prosecutor will have to determine if I thought Barclays Bank was my bedroom.


Additional reading
  1. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2020/05/06/george-conway-trump-lashed-out-me-twitter-its-because-he-knows-truth/
  2. https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/trump-pandemic-briefing-focus-himself/2020/04/13/1dc94992-7dd8-11ea-9040-68981f488eed_story.html: Nice with a good video
  3. https://www.washingtonpost.com/outlook/fascist-dictatorship-trump-second-term/2020/07/10/63fdd938-c166-11ea-b4f6-cb39cd8940fb_story.html - very nice. Jul 12, 2020
  4. In Trump’s Marathon Briefings, the Answers and the Message Are Often Contradictory
  5. https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2019/10/george-conway-trump-unfit-office/599128/
  6. https://www.theatlantic.com/unthinkable/
  7. Donald Trump the Narcissist Is Running the Coronavirus Crisis
  8. Why Does Trump Lie?
  9. https://www.cnn.com/2020/06/17/opinions/mary-trump-book-opinion-dantonio/index.html
  10. https://time.com/5704178/trump-character-unfit-office/
  11. Bill Barr, Not Geoffrey Berman, Should Have Lost His Job This Weekend 
  12. Donald Trump Is the Best Ever President in the History of the Cosmos : NY Times Op-ed. Vocabulary
  13. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2020/07/29/three-big-takeaways-trumps-awful-new-admission-about-putin/
  14. https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/maryanne-trump-barry-secret-recordings/2020/08/22/30d457f4-e334-11ea-ade1-28daf1a5e919_story.html - interesting
  15. At His Core, Trump Is an Immoralist 
  16. Donald Trump: The Worst President in Modern History? 
  17. In a First, New England Journal of Medicine Joins Never-Trumpers 
  18. https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/scientific-american-endorses-joe-biden1/
  19. https://www.washingtonpost.com/graphics/2020/outlook/siskind-list-trump-norms/
  20. https://www.washingtonpost.com/outlook/rap-sheet-trump-crimes/2020/10/16/c6a539da-0e61-11eb-8a35-237ef1eb2ef7_story.html
  21. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2020/10/23/trump-era-so-far-10-drawings-fewer-than-200-words/
  22. https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/2020/10/30/state-department-wouldnt-reveal-its-payments-mar-a-lago-heres-how-we-found-them/
  23. President Trump's Taxes: A Reader’s Guide 444
  24. https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2020/10/trump-covid-denial/616946/ -Wow
  25. Donald Trump's Foreign Policy Hurt American Alliances  - Nice
  26. https://time.com/5907546/america-divided-2020-election/
  27. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2020/11/05/george-conway-trump-election-lies/
  28. https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2020/11/what-if-trump-refuses-concede/616424/ - Great. If Trump contests the election.
  29. https://www.washingtonpost.com/graphics/2020/lifestyle/magazine/trump-presidential-norm-breaking-list/
  30. https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/trump-white-house-purge/2020/11/13/2af12c94-25ca-11eb-8672-c281c7a2c96e_story.html
  31. Lady And The Trump
  32. https://eand.co/how-many-american-idiots-are-there-73-million-bded995868cf
  33. Trump Stress-Tested the Election System, and the Cracks Showed
  34. Over 30 Trump Campaign Lawsuits Have Failed. Some Rulings Are Scathing.
  35. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2020/11/25/trumps-legacy-by-numbers/
  36. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/trump-lays-the-groundwork-for-a-massive-government-purge-on-his-way-out-the-door/2020/11/30/280519ac-333d-11eb-a997-1f4c53d2a747_story.html
  37. https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/2020/12/18/biggest-pinocchios-2020/
  38. https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/trump-election-voter-trust/2020/12/20/00282aa6-407a-11eb-8db8-395dedaaa036_story.html
  39. President Trump: Unhappy, Unleashed and Unpredictable
  40. Trump's Most Disgusting Pardons
  41. https://vbala99.blogspot.com/2020/11/trumps-character.html
  42. https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/trump-raffensperger-call-georgia-vote/2021/01/03/d45acb92-4dc4-11eb-bda4-615aaefd0555_story.html and https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/trump-raffensperger-call-transcript-georgia-vote/2021/01/03/2768e0cc-4ddd-11eb-83e3-322644d82356_story.html: Phone call recording, Trump talking to Brad about Georgia elections. "There is nothing wrong with saying, you know, that you recalculated,’ the president told Brad Raffensperger". Just like the call where Trump told the Ukrainian president to launch an investigation into the Bidens. If Brad did recalculate, Trump would use that fact to portray a very different story. Full transcript: https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/trump-raffensperger-call-transcript-georgia-vote/2021/01/03/2768e0cc-4ddd-11eb-83e3-322644d82356_story.html. Quote: "At one point, Trump told the secretary of state: “All I want to do is this. I just want to find 11,780 votes [Biden won the state by 11,779 votes], which is one more than we have. Because we won the state.”" Note that Trump STARTS with the belief that he won and hence he is hunting for 11,780 votes. 
  43. https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/carl-bernstein-believes-tape-of-trump-seeking-votes-from-election-official-is-the-ultimate-smoking-gun-051034190.html
  44. https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/2021/01/05/trump-keeps-kinda-sorta-admitting-he-lost/
  45. Trump Is to Blame for Capitol Attack - I now list articles which William Shirer might caption "The beginning of the end"
  46. Impeach and Convict. Right Now. : Quote "From the moment Trump became the G.O.P. front-runner in 2015, it was obvious who he was and where, if given the chance, he would take America. He was a malignant narcissist in his person. A fraudster in his businesses. A bully in his relationships. And a demagogue in his politics.He did not have ideas. He had bigotries. He did not have a coalition. He had crowds. He did not have character. He had a quality of confident shamelessness, the kind that offered his followers permission to be shameless, too... Every decent society depends for its survival on its ability to be shocked — and stay shocked — by genuinely shocking behavior. Donald Trump’s entire presidency has been an assault on that idea."
  47. https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/trump-resignations-25th-amendment/2021/01/07/e131ce10-50a3-11eb-bda4-615aaefd0555_story.html: Quote: "Kelly also seemed to voice regret about Trump’s election. “We need to look infinitely harder at who we elect to any office in our land — at the office seeker’s character, at their morals, at their ethical record, their integrity, their honesty, their flaws, what they have said about women, and minorities, why they are seeking office in the first place, and only then consider the policies they espouse,” Kelly said."
  48. The Disgrace on Capitol Hill - Quote: "As for Mr. Trump, to steal some famous words deployed in 1940 against Neville Chamberlain: “In the name of God, go.”" Is this the same paper which believed that impeachment (of Trump) was uncalled for? Whoa.
  49. https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/trump-republicans-capitol-mob/2021/01/07/f56300ac-5111-11eb-b96e-0e54447b23a1_story.html - Humpty Trumpty starts falling.
  50. Republicans Splinter Over Whether to Make a Full Break From Trump
  51. President Trump Criticizes Twitter’s Decision to Ban Personal Account
  52. https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/media/fox-news-blame-capitol-mob-media/2021/01/07/f15f668a-50ee-11eb-b96e-0e54447b23a1_story.html - Disparaging reference to WSJ
  53. The Capitol Attack Shocks the World
  54. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2021/01/14/trumps-future-looks-rotten/
  55. https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/how-fact-checker-tracked-trump-claims/2021/01/23/ad04b69a-5c1d-11eb-a976-bad6431e03e2_story.html
  56. "In an interview with Fox News, former president Donald Trump said Putin had undertaken the military maneuver “because of a rigged election” in the United States. In the days leading up to Russia’s attack — amid escalating tensions — Trump had praised Putin, saying it was a “smart move” by the Russian president to send “the strongest peace force I’ve ever seen” to the Ukraine border." From Russia launches attack on Ukraine, Biden says
  57. ‘This Was Trump Pulling a Putin’
  58. Woodward and Bernstein thought Nixon defined corruption. Then came Trump.: Comparison with Watergate
  59. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/06/13/jan-6-committee-hearing-dangerous-trump/: very nice "In a kind of collective act of self-gaslighting, much of the public has been disarmed by Trump’s tendency to unabashedly project his corruption, as if blithely signaling his intentions somehow drains them of corrupt intent."
  60. A Day After a Portrait of Pence in Danger, Trump Attacks Him Again
  61. Trump’s had bad moments, but few worse than Cassidy Hutchinson’s testimony: very nice.
  62. A President Untethered

Sunday, November 8, 2020

Roja In A Generation

I saw this movie on tv today after many years. The saw it for the first time the year it was released - in 1992.

It was patriotic, had good songs. AR Rehman made his debut in this movie. Mani Ratnam himself was new. 


My life was starting. I had just moved to a new city. I was just beginning my career.


It's now a generation later. Life looks so different now. So so so many things have happened in the intervening years. My professional career is long since over. The work I do is something I had never imagined, I hadn't studied for it. I hadn't even remotely imagined then what i would be doing today or how I would be today.




I guess 

Saturday, November 7, 2020

Trump's Character

This is an interesting compendium of links. My posts in this blog never contain only links. This post is an exception to the rule. There is no personal content, only links. My contribution is the identification of appropriate links.


Additional reading:
  1. https://vbala99.blogspot.com/2020/11/preening-narcissism.html
  2. https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/jerrold-post-cia-trump-covid-death/2020/12/04/6dd566cc-35b2-11eb-b59c-adb7153d10c2_story.html - nice
  3. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2020/12/29/trump-pardons-stephanie-mohr-prince-georges/
  4. In Trump’s Final Chapter, a Failure to Rise to the Covid-19 Moment
  5. https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/johnson-is-not-trumps-transatlantic-twin-cshzqzlj2: Nice - Trump, Boris comparison
  6. Trump Condemns Violence at Capitol, Acknowledges Election Loss - Bunker mode, just like Hitler.
  7. Prospect of Pardons in Final Days Fuels Market to Buy Access to Trump  - Atta boy. 
  8. https://news.yahoo.com/trumps-white-house-staff-alumni-140908014.html - Inauguration Day
  9. https://www.washingtonpost.com/world/2021/01/20/trump-legacy-diplomacy-foreign-travel/
  10. https://www.washingtonpost.com/national-security/trump-justice-department-overturn-election/2021/01/22/b7f0b9fa-5d1c-11eb-a976-bad6431e03e2_story.html
  11. https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/trump-pardons-lobbying/2021/02/05/896f0b52-624b-11eb-9430-e7c77b5b0297_story.html
  12. News18: 'If You Cheat in Golf...': Video of Donald Trump Playing Golf in Miami Goes Viral.
  13. Meadows Pressed Justice Dept. to Investigate Election Fraud Claims
  14. https://www.washingtonpost.com/outlook/2021/06/28/trump-lawsuit-golf-course-bronx/
  15. https://www.washingtonpost.com/posteverything/wp/2016/11/03/i-bought-the-website-trump-org-then-donald-trump-came-after-me/
  16. Inside Donald Trump’s Last Days in the White House and Plans for a Comeback
  17. https://www.washingtonpost.com/national-security/trump-rosen-phone-call-notes/2021/07/30/2e9430d6-f14d-11eb-81d2-ffae0f931b8f_story.html
  18. https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/2021/10/27/14-things-you-need-know-about-trumps-letter-wall-street-journal/
  19. https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/interactive/2021/what-happened-trump-jan-6-insurrection/?utm_content=attack-during
  20. https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/trump-hang-mike-pence/2021/11/12/64a17142-43b0-11ec-a88e-2aa4632af69b_story.html
  21. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/02/02/the-deflating-difference-between-boris-johnson-and-donald-trump/: very funny comparing Boris with Trump
  22. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/02/04/newt-gingrich-started-us-road-ruin-now-hes-back-finish-job/
  23. https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/when-it-comes-to-whataboutism-boris-johnson-has-learnt-from-the-master-donald-trump-cpv907s09
  24. "Federal law makes it a crime to destroy government records, but it requires that a person know specifically they are breaking the law when doing so. That could be difficult to do for Trump, who advisers say tore up documents out of habit," from https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/2022/02/09/trump-archives-justice-department/
  25. Trump Fraud Inquiry’s Focus: Did He Mislead His Own Accountants?
  26. https://www.cnn.com/2022/02/12/politics/list-investigations-trump/index.html
  27. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/02/16/trump-accountants-warning-do-not-trust/
  28. https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/2022/02/12/trump-15-boxes/
  29. https://vbala99.blogspot.com/2022/02/putin-character.html
  30. N.Y. judge rejects Trump’s attempt to countersue E. Jean Carroll
  31. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/03/15/marc-racicot-trump-ukraine-nato/
  32. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/03/24/mo-brooks-turns-on-donald-trump-endorsement-jan-6-committee/
  33. Inside Ted Cruz’s last-ditch battles to keep Trump in power: Trump and Ted Cruz
  34. https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/2022/03/29/trump-putin-political-help/
  35. https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2022/mar/29/trump-phone-logs-capitol-attack-january-6?CMP=Share_AndroidApp_Other
  36. https://www.nytimes.com/2022/03/29/us/politics/trump-jan-6-eastman.html
  37. She Took the White House Photos. Trump Moved to Take the Profit.
  38. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/04/06/is-trump-crazy-or-conniving/
  39. https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/2022/04/15/why-trump-hates-wind-turbines/
  40. Trump walks out of interview after challenge on false voter-fraud claims
  41. A leading Trump sycophant may soon get the humiliation he deserves
  42. https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/apr/28/the-trumpian-right-keeps-pushing-rule-of-law-to-the-brink-but-the-law-is-winning?CMP=Share_AndroidApp_Other
  43. https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/2022/05/07/abortion-movement-roe-wade/
  44. What Trump aides who wrote tell-all books said, before and after
  45. Trump Said to Have Reacted Approvingly to Jan. 6 Chants About Hanging Pence
  46. Trump Is Depicted as a Would-Be Autocrat Seeking to Hang Onto Power at All Costs
  47. Why the media won’t say Donald Trump is lying
  48. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/06/10/house-january-sixth-committee-evidence/
  49. https://www.nytimes.com/2022/06/11/opinion/trump-january-6.html
  50. 7 questions I want the Jan. 6 committee to answer at its upcoming hearings
  51. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/06/13/trump-and-fox-news-told-the-big-lie-for-profit/: "One of two things has to be true. Trump completely lost touch with reality. Or he decided to lie in an attempt to cling to power....this assault was in service of not just political power but also Trump’s grubby, unrelenting pursuit of profit."
  52. https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/jun/14/donald-trump-january-6-hearings-big-lie?CMP=Share_AndroidApp_Other: "Barr added: “There was never an indication of interest in what the actual facts were.” In other words, Trump refused to let reality get in the way of a coup." Classic example of not letting reality come in the way of opinion.
  53. https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2022/jun/18/donald-trump-election-defense-fundraising-defrauded-fans?CMP=Share_AndroidApp_Other
  54. Alone in Washington, Rusty Bowers tells world what happened in Arizona: Nice quote "He remembered something Giuliani said: “He said, ‘We’ve got lots of theories — we just don’t have the evidence.’ ” isn't that nice? The theory or opinion is more important than the data!
  55. https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2017/10/will-donald-trump-destroy-the-presidency/537921/
  56. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nytimes.com/2017/01/21/opinion/sunday/why-i-cannot-fall-in-line-behind-trump.amp.html: Very nice. Look when it was written.
  57. https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2017/01/the-outer-borough-president/514673/
  58. https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2016/06/the-mind-of-donald-trump/480771/: Very nice
  59. https://www.washingtonpost.com/national-security/2022/07/20/even-day-after-jan-6-trump-balked-condemning-violence/?noredirect=1
  60. https://www.nytimes.com/live/2022/07/21/us/jan-6-hearing-trump/trump-could-not-be-moved-to-stop-the-mob-the-chairman-of-the-jan-6-committee-says?smid=url-share
  61. https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2022/07/donald-ivana-trump-death-funeral/670953/
  62. The Fake Electors Scheme, Explained
  63. https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/movies/movie-features/i-wrote-donald-trumps-infamous-best-sex-i-ever-had-story-guest-column-1101246/
  64. https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2022/07/trumps-america-first-speech-revealed-a-plan-for-power/670963/
  65. https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2020/02/hes-going-cheat/606643/: Wow
  66. https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2019/02/andrew-mccabe-fbi-book-excerpt-the-threat/582748/
  67. https://www.nytimes.com/2016/11/02/nyregion/donald-trump-tower-heights.html
  68. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/08/01/ivana-trump-buried-tax-break-grift/
  69. https://www.wsj.com/livecoverage/trump-second-impeachment-trial/card/fJwBp6fJTrqHGmS8Q0jk
  70. Mar-a-Lago Search Shows the Swamp’s Trump Obsession: After FBI raid
  71. https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2022/08/donald-j-trump-guide-getting-away-anything/671165/: Very nice summary 
  72. The Guardian: I am grateful to Trump for one thing: mainstreaming ‘gaslighting’.: Very nice
  73. https://edition.cnn.com/2022/12/04/politics/trump-teddy-roosevelt-parallels-blake-cec/index.html: Comparison with Ted Roosevelt 
  74. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/12/05/trump-constitution-termination-rant-crazy/
  75. The Guardian: I am grateful to Trump for one thing: mainstreaming ‘gaslighting’. Gaslighting Trump
  76. Trump Greenland NYT: https://www.nytimes.com/2019/08/21/world/europe/greenland-denmark-trump.html#commentsContainer&permid=102124023:102124023
  77. https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/2023/01/19/trump-defamation-suit-hoax/

Thursday, October 15, 2020

Too Little Sense And Too Much Maturity

Recently I came across a nurse who forgot to give me prior intimation that we were running out of diapers. She just informed me on the last day that there were no more diapers. 

I was aghast. What is this? I gave her a lecture about how important it was to inform me up front that something was going to get over so that I have time to procure it. And that she was not to intimate me after we ran out of something.


She was sweet. She kept nodding and accepted that it was her fault. She was smiling. There was no shock nor guilt in her face. 


I finally asked her how we would manage that day without diaper (we did have another kind of diaper but we needed the kind that we had run out of). 


She said it was ok, we will manage. I asked her how. What she meant was the patient will suffer / manage. 


Is this the meaning of grace under pressure with absolutely no sense?


Is this what we learn under the guise of grace and maturity - to be sweet, soft and clueless? Is this EQ? 


Most of the these girls don't have a clue about prevention of the problem in future once a problem has been identified. They also hate to tell the caretaker about the presence of an actual problem or the possibility of a problem. 


How can they do a good job if they hate to convey bad news? 


What is this kind of character?

Monday, October 12, 2020

Sacrifice / Qurbani

 http://www.womensweb.in/2016/06/burden-of-sacrifice-for-child/


Making a sacrifice and saying that one made a sacrifice are different. 


The former is a choice (which may seem like or be a sacrifice). It's content.


Saying that one made a sacrifice is to induce indebtedness in another. It's part of image creation.

Thursday, October 8, 2020

Remote Debate With Biden

 Trump Objects to Commission’s Virtual Debate Plan


This brought up the question: what kind of person hates a virtual debate (or needs a face to face (FTF) meeting? 


A person whose primary skill is soft skill and the person who uses body language would hate an impersonal medium like a telephone or a virtual video meeting. In such a stage, Trump may not be able exert his influence on Biden. His interruptions while Biden is talking won't unnerve the latter as much. 


I wonder whether Trump would be able to articulate the real reason why he hates the idea off a virtual meeting.


From 

Friday, September 11, 2020

Saree Gymnastics - Back Flip

These two videos were trending.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CELrixnpdmm/?utm_source=ig_embed&ig_mid=1F62F7CE-2DE9-48C9-A048-8F1B70142777


https://mobile.twitter.com/VarierSangitha/status/1271516375517810688 and https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10223624637428605&id=1371263854&refid=17&_ft_=mf_story_key.10223624637428605%3Atop_level_post_id.10223624637428605%3Atl_objid.10223624637428605%3Acontent_owner_id_new.1371263854%3Aoriginal_content_id.424282288955389%3Aoriginal_content_owner_id.100589847991303%3Athrowback_story_fbid.10223624637428605%3Apage_id.100589847991303%3Aphoto_id.1104320236691605%3Astory_location.4%3Aattached_story_attachment_style.video_inline%3Atds_flgs.3%3Aott.AX8Pk9UueM4G8zSs%3Athid.1371263854%3A306061129499414%3A2%3A0%3A1609487999%3A8167057056452535241&__tn__=%2AW-R#footer_action_list


Both the videos were amazing. I was wondering why I liked the second one (in yellow) more. 


Both the girls were talented. Matter of fact I thought that the guy with the girl in blue saree was even better than his partner in blue. 


The somersault in 1st video seemed too much "prepared" and audience oriented. And it was on a cushion. The risk of breaking any bone was rather limited. 


The yellow in the 2nd video was more authentic. And the girl did a reverse somersault and landed on her palms and then straightened up. And it was on a hard surface. She hardly looked at the camera not smiled. It was terrific. 

There was one more thing that caught my eye. The posture of the yellow girl, her steps, prior to the somersault was absolutely elegant.

Wonder who she is!!! 

She is apparently Mili Sarkar, Gunda informed me. https://www.facebook.com/pages/Misti-Mili-Sarkar/390394128084913 and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LMW0VR7WMAg&app=desktop


This is Parul Arora, the one in blue: https://www.instagram.com/parul_cutearora/ and India.com: Viral Video: Girl Does a Cartwheel While Wearing a Skirt & High Heels, Internet Says 'Wow' | Watch.

Monday, August 31, 2020

Oh Oh, What Have I Created

Ability to deal successfully with various kinds of people is a very important attribute in a person.


Some people score 1/5 in that. This is their biggest weakness.


They don't have soft skills to deal with most people. 

They expect people to understand things logically, have integrity, put in effort. They do not like people who think their emotions and pain as a useful contribution or as justification for non performance or to be the raison d'etre for doing unimportant things.


God might look at such a person and think "oh oh, poor fellow. What have I created?"

Monday, August 24, 2020

Smart Expense Analysis

Recently I went to get my bike serviced at the authorized service center. The bike is more than 10 years old and I was thinking of exchanging it for a new one. I was told the servicing would cost Rs 2000 to Rs2500. I asked the service engineer how much I would get for my bike. The guy told me that my bike would fetch Rs5000 approximately. I thought. What sense did it make to spend Rs 2000+ on servicing my bike whose value was Rs 5000? Here was an interesting question. The cost of a new bike was Rs 60,000. And my bike was in good condition. If I got it serviced, I was sure I could use it for at least one more year easily without problem. Why incur cash outflow of Rs 60k and incur about Rs 5k depreciation for the current year (=(60-5)/12) assuming straight line depreciation and 12 years life and scrap value of Rs5k) for new bike when I could service it for Rs 2500 and no cash outflow. So I got it serviced. I will worry about a new bike next. Sometimes, what seems at face value may not be right!

Sunday, August 16, 2020

Cementing A Relationship

Many women suggest or insist that rapists should have their private parts castrated. 


I agree if the rapist is like the Nirbhaya ones.


I have another suggestion. Females who falsely accuse a man of raping should have their private part cemented. Example would be the female alleged rape victim in the movie Section 375. My friends ARU and TKN agree with me.

Monday, August 10, 2020

J And P (As In MBTI)

Having seen and been with J and P type people I thought i would write my thoughts about them.


P type people are open, interested in new things, they have more width than depth in subjects. J type people are the opposite. When confronted with a new thing, a P (type person) would want to toy with it and it experience it forgetting that they have other commitments and that indulging in the new thing would conflict with the prior commitments. This need for immediate gratification is overwhelming. The stronger their energy levels, the greater the need.

The J usually would strive for depth and is committed to what is in their plate. They hate to take up new things on the fly, they are not open.

As a result, one cannot plan for things with a P because they often don't follow through with what they commit. One cannot plan with a J, on the other hand, because they often may not consider anything out of the beaten path.

As I mentioned earlier, a J is generally, not open to new stuff. When their energy levels go up, the SJ, as an exception, will consider a new S, but not N, experience. The high energy NJ would consider a new N, but not S, experience. 


Note:

  1. In all the assertions, we should prefix the word "largely".
  2. J is a person who is methodical, planned.
  3. P is a person who is more ad-hoc
  4. N is a person who has imagination.
  5. S is a person who goes by memory and can't imagine.
Additional reading:
"This kind of approach — being openly meditative about the issue at hand, with a penchant for missing his own deadlines as he mulls his options — is in line with how Mr. Biden has made other big political choices throughout his career. Those who have worked with him over the years describe nonlinear decision-making processes with input from allies and family members, a barrage of questions from Mr. Biden, and a habit of extending deadlines in a way that leaves some Democrats anxious and annoyed, while others say it brings him to a well-considered decision, eventually.." From Why Joe Biden Keeps Missing His Own V.P. Deadlines

Putting A Diaper



Place an underpad. And then the diaper as shown below. The head will be to the left and feet to the right.




Placing the patient on the diaper is the difficult step. Put the pillow below the diaper to move the person to the left (or right) as needed.
 



The portion below the hips is folded up and the portion to the left is placed on top and stuck. See the two stickers below. 




Then the piece on the right is stuck on top of the left piece.

Wednesday, August 5, 2020

Self Destructive Behavior (SDB)

SDB is not just about cutting yourself up. Indulgence in extreme sports, indulgence in narcotics, indulgence in fatty and spicy food also constitute SDB, in the sense that what you crave isn't good for you.

Extreme generosity, like what Karna had, is also an example of SDB. When we are generous way beyond our means or when we love to take high amounts of stress which we know our body cannot manage we are indulging in SDB.

When we are addicted to behavioral patterns that would ultimately ruin us we can say that we have SDB.

When a very touchy person, who hates to be disrespected, acts as a simpleton and hence subconsciously encourages people to disrespect him - he is also indulging in a weird, inexplicable SDB behavior. SDB comes in various flavors.

How healthy or productive can our life be when half the time what we do is something that hurts US? It's like swimming upstream. 

Even sensible people indulge in such SDB. I guess our reward seeking system or hormones in some of us is so strong that we look at immediate thrill without looking at the long term hurt that we cause ourselves.

How do we stop this? How does it feel when a near and dear person indulges in such behaviour? 

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