Sunday, July 31, 2022

My Chats

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=WnNJaYYF16M&feature=youtu.be

A friend sent me this video. When I was watching it, I had a strange feeling

What I do while chatting online is like that man. 

Jisko samajh aaye theek hai. Some get it. Others think I am very rude!

Tareeke alag hain. On the surface the man is doing face to face there. Very beautiful house, handsome man etc. In my case no face to face. No picture. Par maqsad kafi hadh tak ek.

Husband And Sex And Lover And Affair And Breakup

Friday, July 29, 2022

Happy And Meaningful Life

https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2013/01/theres-more-to-life-than-being-happy/266805/: "Happy people get a lot of joy from receiving benefits from others while people leading meaningful lives get a lot of joy from giving to others," explained Kathleen Vohs, one of the authors of the study, in a recent presentation at the University of Pennsylvania. In other words, meaning transcends the self while happiness is all about giving the self what it wants. People who have high meaning in their lives are more likely to help others in need. "If anything, pure happiness is linked to not helping others in need," the researchers, which include Stanford University's Jennifer Aaker and Emily Garbinsky, write. What sets human beings apart from animals is not the pursuit of happiness, which occurs all across the natural world, but the pursuit of meaning, which is unique to humans, 




Saturday, July 23, 2022

Liz Elizabeth Truss



She, like Boris, seems to be a person who says and does everything based on what is immediately expedient as though she has only AI (artificial intelligence and no human one) regardless of her position earlier and regardless of what is morally/ethically appropriate.

A friend sent me this article: https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/sep/02/mikhail-gorbachev-nelson-mandela-donald-trump-boris-johnson-liz-truss?CMP=Share_AndroidApp_Other. I was reminded of another article in Guardian: https://www.theguardian.com/music/2022/apr/19/fashion-fabrics-and-fishtails-why-we-need-to-talk-about-what-female-classical-performers-wear#comment-155980075 : Maybe at this point in time we should recap what the Oxford scholar Leah Broad said in this article. That while evaluating a female soloist one should evaluate also their dress. I am sure Ms. Broad would extend the logic to prime ministers too. That the PM should be evaluated not just for their fiscal or immigration policies but also for their sartorial correctness. Perhaps our opinion of Truss would be different then, all thanks to Leah.

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Evolution and Freewill, Co-operative Societies - Yet To Read


  1. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3746998/
  2. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3049057/
  3. https://indiankanoon.org/doc/108006076/

https://bigthink.com/ideafeed/how-evolution-explains-the-emergence-of-freewill-in-humans - "Free will is just another kind of cause. The causal process by which a person decides whether to marry is simply different from the processes that cause balls to roll downhill, ice to melt in the hot sun, a magnet to attract nails, or a stock price to rise and fall."


Additional reading 

Wednesday, July 20, 2022

Men And Women, Relationship

  • Men work more: Nearly Half of Men Say They Do Most of the Home Schooling. 3 Percent of Women Agree.
  • On cheating: https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2017/10/why-happy-people-cheat/537882/: "As I [therapist] listen to her, I start to suspect that her affair is about neither her husband nor their relationship. Her story echoes a theme that has come up repeatedly in my work: affairs as a form of self-discovery, a quest for a new (or lost) identity. For these seekers, infidelity is less likely to be a symptom of a problem, and more likely an expansive experience that involves growth, exploration, and transformation... By falling for someone from a very different class, culture, or generation, we play with possibilities that we would not entertain as actualities... Under the spell of passion, lovers speak longingly of all the things they will be able to do when they are finally together. Yet when the prohibition is lifted, when the divorce comes through, when the sublime mixes with the ordinary and the affair enters the real world, what then? Some settle into happy legitimacy, but many more do not. In my experience, most affairs end, even if the marriage ends as well. However authentic the feelings of love, the dalliance was only ever meant to be a beautiful fiction.
  • How Long Does It Take to Fix a Marriage? Give the Gottmans 7 Days.

Focus On Ethics

 https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/89504e5e-0779-11ed-a986-fc91b4ad48f0?shareToken=bfc2b68fe294077c5526c260b0d18235

Monday, July 18, 2022

Red = MAGA

 The nationalist fervor MAGA (make America great again) is perhaps linked or correlated to other conservative agenda (anti abortion, white supremacy, removal of gay rights, anti immigration and so on). 


I guess this means that if i espoused conservative agenda I could use euphemise and say I wanted America great again. And have a bunch of red (Republican) States support me

Greatest Math Team In Florida

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Friday, July 8, 2022

Boris Johnson (And Trump)

Boris has fallen. Trump is in still standing strong.

I wonder if this is any reflection on the strength of the system in UK vis-a-vis USA

Boris being far more silly and less vicious a scum than Trump, his eviction seems to indicate a lot less tolerance for bull in UK.


This is an article comparing the two. Boris Johnson faced revolt in his party. Trump never had that problem.


This is my comparison of the two.

Boris was thrown out by his own people (Tories). Trump is revered by his GOP. 

I was wondering why. Maybe because Boris is just a one man con-man. Trump is a movement. Trump created a legacy. 6 conservative judges out of 9.

Boris just got Brexit done and that too is a mess.


Additional reading:

Thursday, July 7, 2022

Brothers Are Awful

A friend of mine (she is in her 40s) had a huge argument today with her 50 year old brother. I don't know what led to the argument, what she said, what he said etc. Both siblings are separated from their respective spouses.


During the course of the argument, she opened all windows in the apartment and loudly expressed her opinion of her brother's various failures, including his multiple marriages. 


The brother is very sensitive to this issue and hates to cut a sorry figure in front of his friends, neighbours and relatives. The brother threw a footwear at his sister. The sister dialled 100, told the police there was a domestic violence issue.


The police came home, made enquiries. How does one address a domestic violence issue of this kind between siblings? 

They enquired of the elderly father. The father was mum and refused to say anything to the police.


The police counseled everyone and left. 


Now the questions:

  • What kind of a man throws footwear at a lady, that too his own sister? 
  • What recourse did the sister have when her own brother attacked her? Maybe her parents were of no use in restraining the sibling.
  • How come the brother was so insensitive that he couldn't restrain his temper at his younger sister who was going through emotional trauma herself?

 

As a passing note, I want to mention that the act of throwing anything including footwear at someone is an issue legally. One has cause to complain. 


But can anyone go to the police and complain that someone opened the windows and talked loudly?

 


Greg Robinson - NASA

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Do Plants Feel Pain

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