A friend told me that some people consider that question (what do you mean exactly) to be very rude.
I hazarded an answer.
When you ask "What exactly" it makes one answer without ambiguity. And it kinda corners a person. Ambiguity is what FP (as in MBTI) people thrive on. Obviously removing the ambiguity is very threatening (and hence considered rude).
Conversely, if someone answers the question exactly the same way (that asking such a question is rude) you can decide they are FP.
For example, if you tell Sunny Leone to not wear a low cut dress and bend in front of the man she is trying to impress, she will consider it rude (because THAT is her essential survival mechanism).
Similarly, if you tell TJs (as in MBTI) to analyze everything logically and that most people are bored with it, will they be happy with the suggestion?
In each case it's the removal of a crutch. Obviously it will be hated.
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